The big thing, I think is the purpose horses bring to us. *They* bring us purpose. They enhance our lives and all they do is be “horselike”.
Not having your heels down is a symptom of other issues with your riding position. It’s not “put your heels down” that makes for a strong leg!
It kind of sounds like a beginning of a Tinder advertizement. Truth be told, I have never even seen Tinder or any on line dating
This is how you should feel about horse training. I understand you would like to have everything perfect, everything correct and everything go according to plan. Well, sometimes things don’t happen that way. Especially, by the way, when you are riding and training horses.